Help me figure this out.

**Sonic03snake** · 11-25-2009, 07:25 PM

I have this friend of quite a few years who feels I have shunned him off over a woman he met. Ill get to this later.

The story starts about this time last year, he breaks up with his long time girl friend and he hangs out with me and the wife 3-4 times a week for dinner, out to the bar, ETC. We usually go out in a large group including a member here and his girl friend. Come to find out he was texting his girl and trying to split them up to move in on her. Not cool I thought but it kinda wasn't my business. Well, it didn't work out.

Then I find out he borrowed a bunch of money from his previous girl to buy a truck not long before the break up. Never paid it back and went out and bought another truck.

Fast forward to a few months ago, still hanging out but he spent most of the summer with another buddy of ours who was also into diesel trucks. They even went to the diesel races and shared a hotel for the weekend. Well, the following weekend of the diesel races we find out he has been texting this buddys girl and was staying at her house that next weekend. The weeks afterwards he is going around telling everyone the other guy and her private business. At this point, I just couldn't write this off as coincidence and pretty much kept my distance but never said I didn't want to talk to him. Now he is online on another board saying I wrote him off over a girl witch is BS. You just don't do shit like this and I don't want to be in the middle of the bs he caused.

Am I wrong?

**gmkillr** · 11-25-2009, 07:32 PM

I would'nt put up with that crap, your not wrong at all. The dude sounds like some very immature dousche that needs to grow up......

If I was his ex that he borrowed the money from I would take his ass to small claims court to get my money back.

That just my opinion..........................

**93FOX** · 11-25-2009, 09:21 PM

not wrong kick his ass

**gmkillr** · 11-25-2009, 09:33 PM

Originally Posted by 93FOX

not wrong kick his ass

lol, kick his ass seabass!

**somethingclever** · 11-25-2009, 09:43 PM

I wouldn't be upset losing a "friend" with poor character.

**Sonic03snake** · 11-25-2009, 10:26 PM

Im not upset or wanting to beat anyone up, it just amases me how he does shit like this and then try to trash me for not wanting anything to do with him.

Complete lack of respect for others feelings and taking advantage of trust are just 2 pet peaves I have.

**cwh19** · 11-26-2009, 12:00 AM

Originally Posted by Sonic03snake

Im not upset or wanting to beat anyone up, it just amases me how he does shit like this and then try to trash me for not wanting anything to do with him.

Complete lack of respect for others feelings and taking advantage of trust are just 2 pet peaves I have.

Don't talk to him and just ignore his shit. If the rest of your friends know what he is doing then they will know your the better person. He sounds like a douche. And who cares what a bunch of strangers think on a board. The people you care about will know your the better person, not a bitch

**Inkdcountryboy** · 11-26-2009, 01:36 AM

dude sounds like a waste of space n air.. worthless friend who shouldnt be talking smack on anyone.

**Sonic03snake** · 11-26-2009, 01:37 AM

Originally Posted by Inkdcountryboy

dude sounds like a waste of space n air.. worthless friend who shouldnt be talking smack on anyone.

**scott5** · 11-26-2009, 09:16 AM

your my friend lou, as long as jen stops trying to get me to take her out on a date in YOUR car

.. dont tell or show her this or she is going to kick my ass next time she sees me

**somethingclever** · 11-26-2009, 09:25 AM

Originally Posted by scott5

your my friend lou, as long as jen stops trying to get me to take her out on a date in YOUR car

.. dont tell or show her this or she is going to kick my ass next time she sees me

**yeahloh95** · 11-26-2009, 09:32 AM

if he doesnt know what he is doing is wrong he shouldnt be a friend

**crusher101** · 11-26-2009, 10:38 AM

lol yeah but yeahlo... even if he really does know its wrong he shouldnt be... either way you ****in ditch him for that shit.

**Sonic03snake** · 11-26-2009, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by scott5

your my friend lou, as long as jen stops trying to get me to take her out on a date in YOUR car

.. dont tell or show her this or she is going to kick my ass next time she sees me

LOL, you bet.

**INSANELY CRAZY** · 11-26-2009, 12:40 PM

dont think your in the wrong at all lou. hell who's to say he wasent tryin to pick up on your girl also? anyway he sounds like a real wack job that needs to get a life on the otherhand the second girl(stayin at her house) it takes two to tango so she's somewhat on the ignorant side also for letting him stay there knowing she was in a realitionship.

dont worry about it, your the bigger man here.

**Sonic03snake** · 11-26-2009, 12:57 PM

Originally Posted by INSANELY CRAZY

dont think your in the wrong at all lou. hell who's to say he wasent tryin to pick up on your girl also? anyway he sounds like a real wack job that needs to get a life on the otherhand the second girl(stayin at her house) it takes two to tango so she's somewhat on the ignorant side also for letting him stay there knowing she was in a realitionship.

dont worry about it, your the bigger man here.

Well, the other buddy and her broke up and he moved in and proposed marrage about a month later.

**93FOX** · 11-26-2009, 01:17 PM

lou people on this site and many people that know you, realize this is bs and understand you are a man of character, dont stoop to their level and let it get to ya. Its wat they want.