How do you deal with immature college jackasses?

[Bluemeanietsi]

So my g/f has a roomate that's dating a dsm owner. It started out with him just being cocky about 6mo ago saying he's going to run 10's in his car and I politely told him his setup would not support his goals he needed to go bigger.

Flash forward a few months and the whole situation has gone down the toilet. He REPEATEDLY texts/aims my g/f asking her to come service him, have sex with him, saying i'm not worth it, he's the only one that can make her happy.

I put up with it for a while but I can only take so much, finally she straight up told him to stop it and he did for a while. He insists he's had sex with her on multiple occasions but if you knew my g/f you'd know that just isn't true (missionary family, lived in thailand, innocent type) and this kid is known as a compulsive liar.

Anyways long story short since I'm the one who cut off his "fun" now it's turned into physical threats. If it's one thing i've never understood it's the "I want to have sex with your g/f but you wont' let me so i'm going to beat you up" mentality that plagues the college-aged locals around here.

Things went a little south on Buschur forums where he's a VERY active Dave Buschur nutrider (Rogue is his username) and he has told both her and the Buschur forums that he's going to "call me out" at the DSM Shootout, although i'm not sure how you call me out on him trying to have sex with my g/f. The funny part was I posted in a thread about valve springs and ARPs and he started with me.

I'm obviously not a violent, immature person (and he's quite a few years younger than me too) who would stoop to any physical altercations but he's the exact opposite. I really don't know how much i'm going to take of this crap anymore, I guess we'll see what happens in a couple weeks in Norwalk.

The worst part is she's losing 2 of her friends that she used to be close to before me because they're apparently pissed off that i'm a "threat" to them.

[One Sweet Day]

that really sucks. I'm guessing that was your girl in the car when we met, she was really cute. Does he know what area your from? If ignoring him won't work I would keep it legal and call the police just to notify them of the situation.

[One Sweet Day]

how are you a threat to her friends?

[Bluemeanietsi]

They can't have sex with her....or try to...since they apparently think they have in the past but haven't.

[One Sweet Day]

oh...not real friends, shes better without them.

[Bluemeanietsi]

Yes but she's reluctant to realize that.

[sweeney1030]

looks like you have a trunk car- line the inside of the trunk with garbage bags and walk him over to it to "show him some thing" when he gets there have a few of your buds walk up and do nothing except stand there, tell the guy if you dont stop trying to screw your girl - in the trunk he's gonna go.tell him quietly so no one else can say they heard you. I'm just kidding just kick him in the nuts, let him talk shit.

[Pure Stock]

Change telephone number:)

[racefan]

What the FICK is wrong with You!!!!! Just beat the fig out of him with a baseball bat if you have to!!!!!! Some people talk a good fight, but a bat battle will stop the talk,,,,,,

[Bluemeanietsi]

She can't, long story short since she's been in the states her phone is on his/his moms Verizon plan. Not only that but when I said roomates "ex" that doesn't imply he's not still with her all the time as a **** buddy. She can't avoid this kid unless she pays to have the phone shut off and quits that school.

[One Sweet Day]

well thats a tough one. I normally would never choose a guy over my good friends, but you have to know who is using you and who is going to be there for you. thats one she is going to have to decide on for herself, all you can do is help her see that your there for the right reasons. as far as that guy goes...can you settle it in a race?

[Bluemeanietsi]

What the FICK is wrong with You!!!!! Just beat the fig out of him with a baseball bat if you have to!!!!!! Some people talk a good fight, but a bat battle will stop the talk,,,,,,

I'm not like that, I prefer to avoid confrontations all together.

[Bluemeanietsi]

well thats a tough one. I normally would never choose a guy over my good friends, but you have to know who is using you and who is going to be there for you. thats one she is going to have to decide on for herself, all you can do is help her see that your there for the right reasons. as far as that guy goes...can you settle it in a race?

No race. She didn't choose me over them, they chose for her.

[sweeney1030]

x2, then find his car get the plate number report it stolen and watch , or say that you've got a drug tip and dont give your name - say you saw him selling cocaine near a school. that will fix his ass. I did like the bat thing reminds me of my dad.lol

[Balaska347]

If I was in your spot, I would punch him in the throat.

That would probably be bad advice though

[One Sweet Day]

what does she think?

[Bluemeanietsi]

She think it's affecting us and we're going to break up because of their bullshit.

[Twin01cobra]

Only way to deal with him is to beat the sh*t out of him in front of his buddies, he will never bother you or your gf again.

[Bluemeanietsi]

Yeah but that's just not me, if he were to hit me i'd grab the nearest heavy object and hit him with it tho.

[One Sweet Day]

She think it's affecting us and we're going to break up because of their bullshit.

does she think that you should even do anything? really sucks that its someone she can't really get away from....